tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7631451666879199613.post4336115862364783227..comments2023-11-05T07:37:23.135-05:00Comments on LIFE AT TRACEY SPEED: What's...S...E...X?Traceyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11064113501129840818noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7631451666879199613.post-56726200021410972282009-02-06T09:05:00.000-05:002009-02-06T09:05:00.000-05:00People love to say that and I hate it! Because, i...People love to say that and I hate it! Because, it takes all my will power to say um, you need swimmers to do that and if by some miracle it happened my health would be at risk. Grrr, ha ha, resentful at peoples thoughtlessness? As for personal time we still don't have kids, but the fact that I know there is NO possibility is a deterrant.Happyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14335137784267157167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7631451666879199613.post-70254275302658722132009-02-04T13:59:00.000-05:002009-02-04T13:59:00.000-05:00In addition to this, I wasn't willing to share my ...In addition to this, I wasn't willing to share my body with anyone after all of our attempts at IVF. I wanted to have my body for myself again since I felt it had belonged to the Dr.s and nurses and everyone else while trying to get pregnant. Plus, it was a mind game for me. I didn't want to have sex and get my hopes up for a surprise baby after adopting. Heck! I still get my hopes up even though I know getting pregnant for me is impossible! Thanks for this post.Frizzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15150850904947257133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7631451666879199613.post-87110619569595020802009-02-04T12:24:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:24:00.000-05:00Don't I know it. My cycles oddly regulated themsel...Don't I know it. My cycles oddly regulated themselves for the first three months we had our son home, but there was no way to make the most of it. To be honest, the idea of morning sickness while caring for our newborn wasn't appealing, much as I used to want pregnancy, and as much as I will want it soon enough. Anyway, you're not the only one who just can't find the time or energy! At least we have our baby in his crib now and sleeping longer so all we need now is more energy and we'll be back on track:-)HappyAutisticMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07155037824384409624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7631451666879199613.post-13150520479741132282009-02-04T09:51:00.000-05:002009-02-04T09:51:00.000-05:00Understand completely...being up every hour (or da...Understand completely...being up every hour (or darn near close) all night long...all week long...wears.me.out. Actually, both of us!<BR/><BR/>You have to schedule everything--time to hear about each other's day, time to "feed the ducks". There's a funny story in "Red Hot Monogomy" about a couple who had his sister watch the kids so they could have some alone time. She assumed it was for s.e.x. When they went to pick up the kids, she asked "how it was" with a twinkle in her eye. When the wife said, we just fed the ducks, she thought that was "their private phrase" for s.e.x. When, they actually DID just feed the ducks and talk since there never was time for it. So, that's our joke...would you like to feed the ducks tonight? lol.<BR/><BR/>BTW--That's a great book too, to help bring romance into a marriage when there are so many distractions. Lots of ideas from weekend getaway to romantic notes, etc. It's by the Farrels. Also an easy, quick read.Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05692988119185221445noreply@blogger.com